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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2023 10:50:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/55-nocturnal-exchange/#comment-1054&quot;&gt;GlacierSnow&lt;/a&gt;.

Here comes my answer...

Thank you so much GlacierSnow. I&#039;m so glad you notice <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764.png" alt="❤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />
I don’t think the desire for children has anything to do with gender, but as you write is more a matter of personality and life choices.

The gender-stereotypic societal perception almost always says something else. Some of the unequivocal perception is perhaps due to the fact that a woman loses much of her fertility and ability to conceive already from the beginning of her thirties.
Today I heard on TV a man calling for more consideration to be given to men&#039;s need to talk about their emotional thoughts in fertility treatment. The focus is almost exclusively on the woman, her hormones and her feelings, and the man is reduced to an appendix whose sole task is to deliver a portion of semen.
Here I may have gone a bit far in my answer, but I think that many of us who write Simlit have a deeply personal reason and experiences that inspire us and give us material to write the way we do.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/55-nocturnal-exchange/#comment-1054">GlacierSnow</a>.</p>
<p>Here comes my answer&#8230;</p>
<p>Thank you so much GlacierSnow. I&#8217;m so glad you notice ❤<br />
I don’t think the desire for children has anything to do with gender, but as you write is more a matter of personality and life choices.</p>
<p>The gender-stereotypic societal perception almost always says something else. Some of the unequivocal perception is perhaps due to the fact that a woman loses much of her fertility and ability to conceive already from the beginning of her thirties.<br />
Today I heard on TV a man calling for more consideration to be given to men&#8217;s need to talk about their emotional thoughts in fertility treatment. The focus is almost exclusively on the woman, her hormones and her feelings, and the man is reduced to an appendix whose sole task is to deliver a portion of semen.<br />
Here I may have gone a bit far in my answer, but I think that many of us who write Simlit have a deeply personal reason and experiences that inspire us and give us material to write the way we do.</p>
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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/55-nocturnal-exchange/#comment-1059</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MonaSolstraale]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2023 10:30:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/55-nocturnal-exchange/#comment-1054&quot;&gt;GlacierSnow&lt;/a&gt;.

Hi GlacierSnow. I have written a reply to your comment on my web page.
I can see that I made a mistake and wrote an independent comment instead of a reply.
Just FYI so you know I appreciate your comment.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/55-nocturnal-exchange/#comment-1054">GlacierSnow</a>.</p>
<p>Hi GlacierSnow. I have written a reply to your comment on my web page.<br />
I can see that I made a mistake and wrote an independent comment instead of a reply.<br />
Just FYI so you know I appreciate your comment.</p>
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		By: GlacierSnow		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2023 11:45:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve been meaning to say this for several chapters now.  I want to thank you for creating a relationship conflict in which it is the woman who doesn&#039;t want children (or at least not right now) and the man who does want them.  In nearly every story I&#039;ve come across (especially movies and TV shows) if there is a conflict over whether or not to have kids, it is always the woman who wants them and the man who doesn&#039;t.  Even if, by their personalities, it would make way more sense the other way around.  For personal reasons that is extremely frustrating to me.  But you stick with the characters&#039; personalities instead of their genders, and I appreciate that so much.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been meaning to say this for several chapters now.  I want to thank you for creating a relationship conflict in which it is the woman who doesn&#8217;t want children (or at least not right now) and the man who does want them.  In nearly every story I&#8217;ve come across (especially movies and TV shows) if there is a conflict over whether or not to have kids, it is always the woman who wants them and the man who doesn&#8217;t.  Even if, by their personalities, it would make way more sense the other way around.  For personal reasons that is extremely frustrating to me.  But you stick with the characters&#8217; personalities instead of their genders, and I appreciate that so much.</p>
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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/55-nocturnal-exchange/#comment-890</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MonaSolstraale]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 May 2022 20:54:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/55-nocturnal-exchange/#comment-889&quot;&gt;cathytea&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;m glad you enjoyed learning a little more about Masato. He&#039;s such a flirt, so that&#039;s how I imagine him :lol:
It amazed me that Morgan did not get a bad feeling after Masato drank her blood. Maybe it&#039;s because of his alluring abilities.

Tusnelda is realizing that she must change.
Rasmus is still struggling to find his direction, but there is hope ahead. I&#039;m happy for your comments <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764.png" alt="❤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/55-nocturnal-exchange/#comment-889">cathytea</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad you enjoyed learning a little more about Masato. He&#8217;s such a flirt, so that&#8217;s how I imagine him 😆<br />
It amazed me that Morgan did not get a bad feeling after Masato drank her blood. Maybe it&#8217;s because of his alluring abilities.</p>
<p>Tusnelda is realizing that she must change.<br />
Rasmus is still struggling to find his direction, but there is hope ahead. I&#8217;m happy for your comments ❤</p>
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		By: cathytea		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 May 2022 16:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh my! I really enjoyed learning more about Masato! I also love the way you present uncomfortable feelings and situations. It&#039;s done with such care for the characters. I&#039;m excited that Tusnelda feels she might be able to make some healthy changes in how she fits her relationship into her life! And Rasmus is such a mess, a mess with very good friends!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh my! I really enjoyed learning more about Masato! I also love the way you present uncomfortable feelings and situations. It&#8217;s done with such care for the characters. I&#8217;m excited that Tusnelda feels she might be able to make some healthy changes in how she fits her relationship into her life! And Rasmus is such a mess, a mess with very good friends!</p>
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