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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-2363</link>

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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2026 09:56:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-2361&quot;&gt;OrangeYams&lt;/a&gt;.

I fully understand your concerns. Allan and Alice have a toxic relationship. I believe this stems just as much from immaturity on both their parts and an inability to be in touch with their own emotions.
Allan is driven by jealousy and a hot temper. He is locked into rigid ideas about what a marriage should be like. Instead of looking inward – and perhaps reevaluating these beliefs – he directs his frustration at Alice.
As for Alice, I think she is primarily trapped by a lack of self-worth that makes her depend on others to feel valuable – to feel attractive.
It would be easy to cast Allan as the villain here, but one could also view it this way: Alice’s infidelity fuels his insecurity and anger, while Allan’s demeaning behavior toward her drags them both into a self-reinforcing downward spiral.
It is not a healthy environment for a child to grow up in <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f622.png" alt="😢" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-2361">OrangeYams</a>.</p>
<p>I fully understand your concerns. Allan and Alice have a toxic relationship. I believe this stems just as much from immaturity on both their parts and an inability to be in touch with their own emotions.<br />
Allan is driven by jealousy and a hot temper. He is locked into rigid ideas about what a marriage should be like. Instead of looking inward – and perhaps reevaluating these beliefs – he directs his frustration at Alice.<br />
As for Alice, I think she is primarily trapped by a lack of self-worth that makes her depend on others to feel valuable – to feel attractive.<br />
It would be easy to cast Allan as the villain here, but one could also view it this way: Alice’s infidelity fuels his insecurity and anger, while Allan’s demeaning behavior toward her drags them both into a self-reinforcing downward spiral.<br />
It is not a healthy environment for a child to grow up in 😢</p>
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		By: OrangeYams		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2026 23:49:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh no.. it seems like Blue is still perpetuating the hurt of her situation onto others. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f614.png" alt="😔" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> She must feel so stuck. 

Allan is so easily angered at the slightest of things. His thoughts towards Blue is so controlling.. everything she does has to be filtered through his wants and needs. I fear for baby Andy.. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f635-200d-1f4ab.png" alt="😵‍💫" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh no.. it seems like Blue is still perpetuating the hurt of her situation onto others. 😔 She must feel so stuck. </p>
<p>Allan is so easily angered at the slightest of things. His thoughts towards Blue is so controlling.. everything she does has to be filtered through his wants and needs. I fear for baby Andy.. 😵‍💫</p>
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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-1108</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 May 2023 18:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-1106&quot;&gt;Manny Likes Sims&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764.png" alt="❤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-1106">Manny Likes Sims</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks ❤</p>
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		By: Manny Likes Sims		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-1106</link>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 May 2023 18:41:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Awww, I&#039;m so worried about Blue and the choices she&#039;s making! TT.TT But I&#039;m still rooting for her to get into a better situation! I&#039;m enjoying the roller coaster of emotions &#060;3]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awww, I&#8217;m so worried about Blue and the choices she&#8217;s making! TT.TT But I&#8217;m still rooting for her to get into a better situation! I&#8217;m enjoying the roller coaster of emotions &lt;3</p>
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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-1072</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MonaSolstraale]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2023 22:41:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-1071&quot;&gt;GlacierSnow&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you very much for your feedback <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764.png" alt="❤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />
I&#039;m glad the characters seem interesting. 

Alice definitely has a problem and poor Rasmus is innocently caught up in it. He is slowly finding his footing again.
Allan is hot headed and jealous. It is the worst possible combination together with Alice who is outgoing and rather flirty.

Now that you mention the different plots, you can expect even more threads next season. I hope it doesn&#039;t end in chaos :lol: 
Several of the familiar characters will change. I hope that their development will seem believable and that they will not lose their appeal.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-1071">GlacierSnow</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you very much for your feedback ❤<br />
I&#8217;m glad the characters seem interesting. </p>
<p>Alice definitely has a problem and poor Rasmus is innocently caught up in it. He is slowly finding his footing again.<br />
Allan is hot headed and jealous. It is the worst possible combination together with Alice who is outgoing and rather flirty.</p>
<p>Now that you mention the different plots, you can expect even more threads next season. I hope it doesn&#8217;t end in chaos 😆<br />
Several of the familiar characters will change. I hope that their development will seem believable and that they will not lose their appeal.</p>
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		By: GlacierSnow		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-1071</link>

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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 23:40:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am still loving this story!  All the different plot threads and character arcs are so engaging.

Worried about both Rasmus and Blue/Alice right now as I get ready to start reading your third season.  Especially seeing Blue starting the same thing again with another guy.

Your characters all just are so interesting!  Even the ones who aren&#039;t such good people.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am still loving this story!  All the different plot threads and character arcs are so engaging.</p>
<p>Worried about both Rasmus and Blue/Alice right now as I get ready to start reading your third season.  Especially seeing Blue starting the same thing again with another guy.</p>
<p>Your characters all just are so interesting!  Even the ones who aren&#8217;t such good people.</p>
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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-925</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MonaSolstraale]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 13:36:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-924&quot;&gt;Yimiki&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks Yimiki <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764.png" alt="❤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />
Your words make me really happy :D

I love in many ways writing the chapters where I can let the contrasts paint half of the narrative.
All life contains joys and problems and things are rarely as they appear on the surface.

There is some likelihood that Andy will get yellow hair, but whether it will have any significance the future will show.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-924">Yimiki</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks Yimiki ❤<br />
Your words make me really happy 😀</p>
<p>I love in many ways writing the chapters where I can let the contrasts paint half of the narrative.<br />
All life contains joys and problems and things are rarely as they appear on the surface.</p>
<p>There is some likelihood that Andy will get yellow hair, but whether it will have any significance the future will show.</p>
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		By: Yimiki		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2022 12:03:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Finally had a moment to get to this! And what a chapter indeed. I think this is one of my favourites. Blue/Allan and Tusnelda/Martin in this chapter are such stark opposites of each other. One relationship that is based on love and truth, but has issues conceiving, and one relationship that has conceived but it based on lies, fear and violence. 

Tusnelda and Martin’s issues almost seem like a non-problem in comparison; the world is full with options for them, as long as their foundation is true. Where Alice’s foundation is so wobbly that it will fall over with the slightest bit of wind. I truly fear what will happen if Allan finds out that his baby is not really his. What are the chances that Andy will age into a toddler with yellow hair? Would Allan turn his wrath on the kid as well as his wife? Would Alice let him? 

Oh, geez. And she’s right back to her flirty ways as soon as Allan turns his back. If only she’d realise that the true right thing, the only right thing, to do here is to stop repressing part of herself and leave Allan entirely. 

I hope you have a wonderful vacation Mona &#060;3]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finally had a moment to get to this! And what a chapter indeed. I think this is one of my favourites. Blue/Allan and Tusnelda/Martin in this chapter are such stark opposites of each other. One relationship that is based on love and truth, but has issues conceiving, and one relationship that has conceived but it based on lies, fear and violence. </p>
<p>Tusnelda and Martin’s issues almost seem like a non-problem in comparison; the world is full with options for them, as long as their foundation is true. Where Alice’s foundation is so wobbly that it will fall over with the slightest bit of wind. I truly fear what will happen if Allan finds out that his baby is not really his. What are the chances that Andy will age into a toddler with yellow hair? Would Allan turn his wrath on the kid as well as his wife? Would Alice let him? </p>
<p>Oh, geez. And she’s right back to her flirty ways as soon as Allan turns his back. If only she’d realise that the true right thing, the only right thing, to do here is to stop repressing part of herself and leave Allan entirely. </p>
<p>I hope you have a wonderful vacation Mona &lt;3</p>
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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-923</link>

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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2022 10:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-916&quot;&gt;cathytea&lt;/a&gt;.

It is, but will he ever know? :?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-916">cathytea</a>.</p>
<p>It is, but will he ever know? 😕</p>
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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-922</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MonaSolstraale]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2022 10:40:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-919&quot;&gt;Mercuryfoam&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for your comments <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764.png" alt="❤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />

I really like Alice a lot and it&#039;s a sad development. She does what she can to fit in and it&#039;s pretty devastating :sad:
I hope I managed to give Allan some more nuances.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/61-fertility/#comment-919">Mercuryfoam</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for your comments ❤</p>
<p>I really like Alice a lot and it&#8217;s a sad development. She does what she can to fit in and it&#8217;s pretty devastating 🙁<br />
I hope I managed to give Allan some more nuances.</p>
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