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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2025 22:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/99-lose-control/#comment-1343&quot;&gt;simscognito&lt;/a&gt;.

Allan has fought so hard and now he&#039;s really being tested. I realize you don&#039;t know his behavior from the beginning, but back then he was the most unsympathetic character in the story. Alice came across as the victim everyone cared about. Things aren&#039;t always what they seem and I think most readers&#039; sympathy for the two of them has shifted throughout the story. All the insecurity he has to contend with on several fronts really eats away at his mental energy. He really deserves things to start working out for him.

As you say, Don is running on several fronts. It may seem so simple that he should just stop and accept what awaits, but the truth is that it scares him out of his wits. I think he lacked the positive role models during his upbringing who could show him that love is not dangerous. That vulnerability does not mean weakness. Rasmus is definitely a friend who has really put his self-perception to the test and shown him that he might be wrong.
In the long run, he cannot run away from his fear and the woman he is drawn to. The confrontation with all his bad choices makes him feel like a wreck. He still needs the last step and muster the courage to act.

Jade sure knows what she wants. She is strong-willed and tough. She does not let a bump in the road knock her down. Marcus was one of the characters I had a hard time embracing from the start, but I really think he and Jade provide a good counterpoint to each other. I love the contrast in Marcus between the self-important doctor and the fumbling partner.

Alice struggles with her guilty conscience. Both in relation to her son and not least Allan. She knows her infidelity is not right, but she is easily seduced by her desire for fun.
I have a little doubt how Allan will handle it if she is honest. They have had a lie between them as a compromise before. I am still doubtful about what it takes to keep this couple together.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/99-lose-control/#comment-1343">simscognito</a>.</p>
<p>Allan has fought so hard and now he&#8217;s really being tested. I realize you don&#8217;t know his behavior from the beginning, but back then he was the most unsympathetic character in the story. Alice came across as the victim everyone cared about. Things aren&#8217;t always what they seem and I think most readers&#8217; sympathy for the two of them has shifted throughout the story. All the insecurity he has to contend with on several fronts really eats away at his mental energy. He really deserves things to start working out for him.</p>
<p>As you say, Don is running on several fronts. It may seem so simple that he should just stop and accept what awaits, but the truth is that it scares him out of his wits. I think he lacked the positive role models during his upbringing who could show him that love is not dangerous. That vulnerability does not mean weakness. Rasmus is definitely a friend who has really put his self-perception to the test and shown him that he might be wrong.<br />
In the long run, he cannot run away from his fear and the woman he is drawn to. The confrontation with all his bad choices makes him feel like a wreck. He still needs the last step and muster the courage to act.</p>
<p>Jade sure knows what she wants. She is strong-willed and tough. She does not let a bump in the road knock her down. Marcus was one of the characters I had a hard time embracing from the start, but I really think he and Jade provide a good counterpoint to each other. I love the contrast in Marcus between the self-important doctor and the fumbling partner.</p>
<p>Alice struggles with her guilty conscience. Both in relation to her son and not least Allan. She knows her infidelity is not right, but she is easily seduced by her desire for fun.<br />
I have a little doubt how Allan will handle it if she is honest. They have had a lie between them as a compromise before. I am still doubtful about what it takes to keep this couple together.</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment 🥰</p>
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		By: simscognito		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2025 09:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Aww I really feel for Allan. Alice is totally being unfaithful at home. Oh damn these plants keep sprouting up everywhere. I really feel for him. He’s obviously struggling with insecurities to do with his home life and that he’s feeling out-of-his-depth in this town. Yess, I’m so happy for his breakthrough! 

“Don’t you ever get tired of running?” he says. – that is a question for Don on many levels. I love how Don is reflecting on his behaviour through the friends he’s made and how differently their lives are going. I hope someday he comes to terms with the idea of changing for the better. 

The truth is that the thought of Delphine keeps knocking on his mind….
Answer the door, Don! 

Also yayyy it’s all coming back to him. He should act on his wish. Go find her!

I love Jade. She’s so down-to-earth and knows what she wants. Even if it’s like walking on egg shells with her sometimes. XD Also, the dynamic between her and Marcus is very entertaining. XD

Oh dear, Andy’s face when Alice mentions putting him to bed. XD But Alice, I’m glad you feel regret. You should. I think she needs to be honest with Allan about her feelings. Because, like you said, she’s not ready for this kind of life.

And nooo Alice, just because the agreement suits you and your conscience it is not the agreement you had with your husband.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww I really feel for Allan. Alice is totally being unfaithful at home. Oh damn these plants keep sprouting up everywhere. I really feel for him. He’s obviously struggling with insecurities to do with his home life and that he’s feeling out-of-his-depth in this town. Yess, I’m so happy for his breakthrough! </p>
<p>“Don’t you ever get tired of running?” he says. – that is a question for Don on many levels. I love how Don is reflecting on his behaviour through the friends he’s made and how differently their lives are going. I hope someday he comes to terms with the idea of changing for the better. </p>
<p>The truth is that the thought of Delphine keeps knocking on his mind….<br />
Answer the door, Don! </p>
<p>Also yayyy it’s all coming back to him. He should act on his wish. Go find her!</p>
<p>I love Jade. She’s so down-to-earth and knows what she wants. Even if it’s like walking on egg shells with her sometimes. XD Also, the dynamic between her and Marcus is very entertaining. XD</p>
<p>Oh dear, Andy’s face when Alice mentions putting him to bed. XD But Alice, I’m glad you feel regret. You should. I think she needs to be honest with Allan about her feelings. Because, like you said, she’s not ready for this kind of life.</p>
<p>And nooo Alice, just because the agreement suits you and your conscience it is not the agreement you had with your husband.</p>
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		By: MonaSolstraale		</title>
		<link>https://solstraalesims.dk/99-lose-control/#comment-1339</link>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2025 22:36:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://solstraalesims.dk/99-lose-control/#comment-1338&quot;&gt;cathytea&lt;/a&gt;.

Alice (Blue) is making some really bad decisions right now. She still has some learning to do.
You should trust Don. He&#039;s in a tough spot, but he may not have as far left as he thinks.

(I suspect WordPress or Jetpack are making some updates, because my readers have been complaining for a while that they couldn&#039;t post comments. I did a test the day before yesterday and then it was possible to post a comment for me again. I&#039;m glad you were able to do it too. I was prevented from liking another story today, which confused me a bit.)
As always, I really appreciate your &quot;like&quot; and comment. Thank you! <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f970.png" alt="🥰" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://solstraalesims.dk/99-lose-control/#comment-1338">cathytea</a>.</p>
<p>Alice (Blue) is making some really bad decisions right now. She still has some learning to do.<br />
You should trust Don. He&#8217;s in a tough spot, but he may not have as far left as he thinks.</p>
<p>(I suspect WordPress or Jetpack are making some updates, because my readers have been complaining for a while that they couldn&#8217;t post comments. I did a test the day before yesterday and then it was possible to post a comment for me again. I&#8217;m glad you were able to do it too. I was prevented from liking another story today, which confused me a bit.)<br />
As always, I really appreciate your &#8220;like&#8221; and comment. Thank you! 🥰</p>
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		By: cathytea		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2025 21:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh, I really enjoyed this! Blue and Allan seem to be headed towards trouble--I hope Blue makes some better decisions soon. I&#039;m also hoping that Don makes a good decision soon, too! (WP isn&#039;t letting me &quot;like&quot; posts today, so just know that I liked it a lot!)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I really enjoyed this! Blue and Allan seem to be headed towards trouble&#8211;I hope Blue makes some better decisions soon. I&#8217;m also hoping that Don makes a good decision soon, too! (WP isn&#8217;t letting me &#8220;like&#8221; posts today, so just know that I liked it a lot!)</p>
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